What do i do with my life?

i am a 13 year old 9th grader without a real bff, bf or any really good friends my age. i am also obsessed with book and computers, and i constantly fight with my mom. i dont follow trend since the trends now are getting a bf and making out by the lockers, and talking about , and going to dances which cost 45 dollars and are a waste of time. i am really trying to find my place in this world but i have no special skills. i can crochet and knit and beginner levels, cook powder deserts, and annoy the hell out of everyone i know. i write fairly good poetry concerning everything i despise and i suck MAJORLY at writing stories. i dont want to try and fit in if it means having to pretend i care about clothes and who is going out with who. i dont sucb to peer pressure because i have a strong and wild spirit that cannot be broken. please advise me in my time of need